Jul 30, 2009

Another knife in our hearts

Sadly we received the devastating news last night that the dreaded caps coming off our vials in shipment ended up being the worst thing ever. Not one of our twelve embryos were there. I imagine they were all on the floor of the tank, destroyed. The doctors were amazingly supportive and equally devastated. We have options still down the road, now though we need time to cope with this disaster as heartbreaking as it is.

19 comments:

  1. Oh, Kerrie and Mark, I'm heartbroken for you. I hope I'll be able to offer a hug in person today. We know you'll figure out a plan B, but mourn with you in this loss.
    Stephanie and Adam

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  2. I am so sorry Kerrie and Mark. I wish I was there to comfort you.

    Please let me help you in any way possible.

    xxx

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  3. Oh Kerrie

    Thanks for your comment on my blog. I feel really selfish now, whinging about a few days delay when such a terrible thing has happend to you guys.

    I'm so sick of hearing disappointing news for you both. Please, please, let this trn around for you two soon.

    Thinking of you all the time.

    xxx

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  4. :( My heart is aching for you, I am so sorry to hear this news. How devastating! I will keep you guys in my prayers.

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  5. Oh my... what horrible news. I was so hoping this was going to work out OK for you.

    Take time to heal and be there for each other, and don't let this defeat you.

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  6. I feel sick for you....I am so sorry. Big hugs to you both!

    Jackie

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  7. SO upset for you guys too. I seriously do not know what else to say, except offer a huge hug which I'll get my husband to deliver in person.

    Lisa
    xx

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  9. I want to say so many other things and none of it is coming out right, so I'm logging off now. My heart is heavy too.

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  10. Oh Kerrie, if its not one its the other. This road is not easy and we are all here for you to comfort you. Prayers and love are going out to the both of you. Keep your head up and i like that your optimistic with other options.

    xxoo Amanda

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  11. I just read this dreadful news, I had every ounce within me of hope that this was NOT to be the outcome. I am hurting for you both Tur. I am so sorry. Ursula

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  12. I am so sorry for your devestating news.

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  13. I'm so very sorry. I have no words. You guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  14. Kerrie, I am so sorry. Words fail in moments like this. I am so ANGRY for you too...I can't believe you just found this out. I know it's probably impossible to see, but everything does happen for a reason. I wish there was a way to make such a devestation a little easier. I'm so sorry.

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  15. Words cannot express how sorry I am. You are in my prayers.
    Rebecca D.

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  16. Kerrie and Mark

    I am so sorry to hear this news. It is disappointing beyond words.....you are both in our thoughts and prayers.

    Trea

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  17. My heart completely sunk when I read your post! Words cannot even express how very devastated I am for you both. This is SO unfair. I am still in disbelief at the road you have traveled thus far. I am sending you a ton of love (hope you got my message from the Docs personally sending love)and prayers your way.

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  18. I am so deeply saddened by this news, I have big tears in my eyes. There is not much to say but just that I am so sorry.....
    My thoughts are with both of you...

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  19. Oh no.. I am so sorry that this happened. I cannot even come up with the words I am searching for. Sorry just doesn't seem to be enough.

    Hugs ~ Marie

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