Aug 28, 2010

BFN

Big Fat Negative, sadly.

20 comments:

  1. I've been checking all day. I am so very sorry. Love, GeGe

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  2. Kerrie, I am so terribly sorry to read this news. It is absolutely unbelievable how much heartbreak and pain you must go through. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Emma

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  3. Oh Kerrie, I am truly, truly sorry xx

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  4. Okay Kerrie and Mark, this is BS. I am so sorry. I was sure this would be a BFP. Much love and many hugs xxx

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  5. Urg! So so so so sorry.
    I wish so badly that your result was different. We are thinking of you both.

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  6. Oh Kerrie and Mark! I don't know what to say. Only that I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope, hope, hope that you'll get your BFP soon. You have been through so much, more than most of us here, and your strength and positivity is an inspiration to us all.

    All my love, OK? x

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  7. I don't even have words. Anything I think to say just sounds stupid. It isn't fair. I know we all handle hard times in our own way but if you want to talk please give me a call anytime. You and Mark are amazing people.
    Hugs, Amber

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  8. HI Kerry and Mark,
    So sorry for your BFN. I am not sure of your entire journey but can I ask would you consider doing a fresh transfer with Dr Shivani ?
    I have done two fresh transfers and one frozen transfer. I produce excellent embryo's and each time I have done fresh it has worked but the frozen time was a negative. So there is something about them being frozen that just seems to result in negatives. I was worried about doing EPU in India but it was fine both times and Dr Shivani is a skilled surgeon. Best wishes and don't give up. You deserve to succeed. I have a big sign at home that says "Faith makes things possible...not easy".
    X Gemway

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  9. Kerrie and Mark I am so sorry to hear this. I have been hoping and praying with every part of my being that this would be your time. God it sucks. I'm not going to say hang in there or it will happen because I know how hard it is to believe that sometimes, so instead do what you need to do. If you need to hate the world and all the 'lucky' people in it then go right ahead. Scream, curse, curl up and hide from the world or whatever gets you through. Hugs Trea

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  10. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. I agree with your friend Amber...everything I think of to say just sounds stupid. Just know that I am thinking of you. Xo Rebecca

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  11. I am just pure mad. Crap, crap, crap.

    I know there is no way you are quitting and you have a world (literally) of support here - so much love and warmth channeled your way from all the amazing people in our blog world.

    So, we are here waiting with you - for your day to come - which it will. Boy oh boy are you being tested though. Just remember that there will be someone after you with a similar struggle and reading your history, and how positive you remained, will give them the strength to continue.

    xxxx

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  12. Damn it - it's not fair! You have been through so much already and you have persevered. I echo Trea's sentiment - do what you need to do to heal and there are plenty of people you can reach out to if you need to talk or scream. I'm sorry your surrogacy journey has been so painful. Please take care of yourself and each other.

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  13. I am so sorry to read this. Take good care of each other, we were hoping and keeping fingers crossed for you.

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  14. I don't know what to say. I wish I could just reach out and give you a gigantic hug.

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  15. Hopefully you will keep on trying even after this setback. Good luck

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  16. Sucks, sucks and sucks some more. We live close to the Barossa Valley - do we need to do a day trip and purchase a case (or two??) of wine and send your way?? Seriously, do whatever you need to to regroup and kick Plan UGYWENJFI off. You will achieve this!!!!

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  17. WTF? So sorry to hear your BFN!!i know it will happen, its just takes US a bit longer hun.
    "You must have long term goals to keep you from being frustrated by short term failures- Charles C. Noble"

    I know the frustration, heartache and blame game, hang in there hun its just a matter of time. you have so manyoptions (which we are currently exploring)..We're ALL here for you!! hugs from Jersey!

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  18. Just saw this, been hiding out for obvious reasons. So so sorry. :'(

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  19. I am so sorry for your heartache and wish I could help. I agree with Gemway and have also self-cycled twice with Dr Shivani with positive results from fresh transfers with very little eggs. If you are able to in time it is worth the try. If you want to know anything about self-cycling with Dr Shivani please let me know via your post. I truly hope your pain is replaced with joy.
    Kim x

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  20. I can only imagine how you feel but my heart is with you guys. And I wish you much strength. Love Fiona.

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